Secured lover?jolene, you tend to gravitate toward romantic partners who have a Preoccupied attachment style.
People with a preoccupied attachment style tend to show a great deal of openness and are eager to get close in a relationship. They can be very devoted partners.
Attachment style begins in infancy with the interactions we have with our parents or primary caregivers. Through these early relationships we begin to understand the dynamics and patterns of close relationships and we carry this perspective into our adult relationships.
Psychologists call your attachment style Fearful Avoidant.
You tend to have mixed feelings about relationships. A part of you may want to have a close, loving relationship, but another part of you may be somewhat uncomfortable with commitment. It's also likely that you are afraid others will let you down or abandon you. Although you tend to be open to relationships, you may not easily reveal the true you, and potential partners are likely to be intrigued about discovering the person you are deep down.
31% of those who have taken our test share this style of attachment.
Your answers on our test show that when it comes to relationships you have grown beyond your earliest attachment issues. While you may not have every issue resolved, you're making substantial progress at establishing healthy relationship patterns.
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my mummy is a bias old woman. my brother just gotten his new psp. yes psp, costing nearly 700 bucks. which 11 yr old would need an electronic device thats so new? and then she refused to buy me the phone i want. eeeks! she's depriving me. daddy already said ok. another henpecked husband. and yet she deprived me and my sister. i'm so angryyyyyyy!!! i dun wanna talk to mummy le. pffts. ANGRY!