• Throw a small party. The fun of letting loose and being surrounded with your close friends can make anyone feel better. [chey wat if u are not a party person?]

• Gather everything that reminds you of your past love and put it in a box specifically for this. Then give it to a friend or store it somewhere where you won't see or think about it. When you're ready you can either throw away the box or keep it for memory's sake. [just throw it away lah...save urself the heartache...but just dun regret doing so 10 mins later...hehe]

• Start a daily journal, even if it's on your computer. Somewhere everyday take the time to jot down whatever comes to mind. The idea in starting a journal is not to write cleverly or even about anything important. Just write (or type) whatever comes to mind even if your journal starts to look like this: "Went shopping yesterday for a new book oh yea need to e-mail Susan, the flowers on that window sill need watering." The point of your journal is to clear your thoughts. In a few weeks you will be able to read your entries to discover new things and trends about yourself. [i always feel i'm blabbering nonsense...anyway i already have one...]

• Join a new interest group. It's never too late to meet new friends and, at least this way, you'll already have one thing in common. [yeah u never know when u would meet someone real cute too. haha]

• Learn something new. Take a foreign language or art course, or buy a how-to computer program. [ yah lah...learn the piano...learn the guitar...take jap lessons...take french lessons...take gardening lessons...take "how to be a good housewife" lesson...take "how to not be a jerk" lesson...oopsie...haha]

• Pick out an inspirational book or movie to read or watch whenever you start feeling down or depressed. [watching sad movies at this point of time gives you the excuse to brawl!]

• Take yourself out on a date, even if it's a night alone watching your favorite programs and eating your favorite foods. [huh alone? feels so weird...]

• Do the things you said you always wanted to do when you were with your partner but somehow never did. [i dun understand how this would help]

• Get a new look. [oh this is exactly the way like wat ppl said, u gotta cut ur hair to show u are over that guy/girl and a new haircut means a new start and not dwelling on the past. i'll kill myself if i ever cut my hair short]

• Pick up a calendar and fill out the next 3 months with social events you'd like to attend or things you'd like to do. Browse your city's web site or the entertainment section of your local newspaper to find out ideas, dates and times. [as if there are anything thats so happening that u have to fill out ur calender 3 months ahead of time]

• Spend a "comfy" day. Get out your favorite comfy clothes, pillow, blanket, etc. and just spend the day relaxing doing whatever you want! [finally i could bring my eeyores out?]

• Get a pet or plant to take care of. [ i dun mind having a dog...if mommie ever allows...]

• Rent a few romantic movies or read a few romance novels to remind yourself that love does still have happy endings. [you never know till the end...]

• Write a goodbye poem or letter. Then stick it in a bottle and throw it out in the sea or attach it to a helium balloon to be carried away. [=faintz= might as well burn and drink it up]

• Do something you wouldn't normally do to celebrate your "singleness." [like slashing ur wrist? jumping off a building? drinking alcohol and eating 24 panadols at the same time? or jump down the train track when the mrt is approaching?]

• Redecorate your space. Start off by cleaning out everything and throwing away anything you don't use or need anymore. Make a few self-indulgent decorating additions like a few candles, a favorite painting or fresh flowers! [ i would repaint my room pink!]

• Visit a new city. Pick some place you've always wanted to go or some place closer to home to save money. [anywhere as long as i can take a plane ride]

• Spend time with your friends. [why is this point at the very end? i think this is the most important thing...even if u are attached...]

okie i wanna go take a shower and do my homework le. please take the shocked looks off ur faces...i'm a good student k? so stop thinking i'm lazy! pffts...goodnites ppl...